2021.09.20 04:11 Cdtlongball1 Aaron Loup
2021.09.20 04:11 urourp Who got her friend?
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2021.09.20 04:11 ppspdr notify me
2021.09.20 04:11 WomanScorched Divorce in your 40s - tell me it gets better
Caught my husband in an affair days after an argument that allowed him to drop the D word. Not his first affair. He met her online and flew thousands of miles to hook up with her - he had booked the trip the week before our fight, so he was looking for a way out and took the fist chance he had. Their emotional affair has been going on for weeks.
Pretty sure he's an alcoholic at best and has a personality disorder at worst, but that's beside the point...
I've got to get out.
We have kids. I'm obviously devastated. My whole world has been tossed upside down for some fantasy world. He has no job, no real friends, and even his family is tired of his lies and behavior. But, he's fine. He's found someone that shows him the attention and love he didn't feel from me, and he acts like none of this bothers him. She lives across the country and is married herself, and works part time. It will never work but he's still thrilled. And here I am...heartbroken.
He's still planning on living in our home while he "figures it out".
How do you keep going?
I'm smart, decently attractive, moderately successful. I'm the breadwinner - I bought our beautiful home and keep it clean and inviting - and can definitely pay for it on my own. I've already been doing it. I've got great & supportive friends, awesome kids, an amazing career, healthy hobbies and none of the bad ones, and yet I feel like the loser.
Am I doomed to die an old spinster or a cat lady?
As he so very nicely put it, "...41 years old, twice divorced, with kids...who no one will want..."
Tell me he's wrong and that this gets easier, because this sucks.
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2021.09.20 04:11 FrigidMagma Flamingo
2021.09.20 04:11 SCOTT_GAMING48 MY FNAF THEORY!!!!!!!!!
HI MATPAT :D im a new theorist in this channel i was about to sleep when suddenly something came into my mind a theory about fnaf what if the player or security guard is actually the kid from the bite of 87 what if he didnt die and he grew up and saw the ad on the news paper what if the fnaf 4 is the origins of the player, the child/player is so terrified that he wanted to get revenge and the time he saw the ad he remembered his childhood and started releasing his anger so he took the job to get revenge but he realized they are more tougher than he thought and thats my game theory my theory
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2021.09.20 04:11 sunnyl_and Holiday Leave problems
Managers telling us now that they can almost 99% guarantee that "extended holiday Leave" will not be approved. Haven't been able to travel in like two years so I haven't seen my mother or father in that time frame but no approval for a two week vacation when I only work 3 shifts a week anyway?
Apparently they'll only approve in special circumstances such as a cruise booked 3 years ago. Interesting considering managers seem to constantly be on vacation.
I've already heard of several people at my location who will be resigning their positions in the future because of this.
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2021.09.20 04:11 kittymcvicious Dauphin Island
2021.09.20 04:11 bio-reject Tankless water heaters
My fiancé’s mom eventually plans to install a tankless water heater once the existing one goes out. I was doing research on them to determine wire size and according to google they draw 150amps? Does sounds stupidly ridiculous. Maybe for commercial but for 1600 square footage with one woman living there, there must be a reasonable option. Isn’t there a 50amp tankless water heater that is decent?
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2021.09.20 04:11 rustylouisthe3rd How many of you have slept with 100 people?
2021.09.20 04:11 Silver-Persimmon6562 those ghost's are really nice
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2021.09.20 04:11 Exotic_Fig_3986 OH MY GOD!!! HOW IS THIS EVEN POSSIBLE.
So, apparently a woman tries to teach animals to speak. So, she was appointed to teach a dolphin how to speak. And that mf fell in love with her. She loved the dolphin too SEXUALLY!! And she said that they had seggs too. And when the higher authority ppl got to know this they seperated the woman and the dolphin and the dolphin does with in a week because of depression.
Oh man even dolphins are getting laid 😖
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2021.09.20 04:11 Caftrog Join
2021.09.20 04:11 Jolly-Idea-5079 why would you marry a drug addict or mental patient and then have children with them?
2021.09.20 04:11 karmaextract Finally closed my FB dating profile
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2021.09.20 04:11 LoudSports34 Best site to get fakes from?
2021.09.20 04:11 sburgess86 Lysosome-related organelles contain an expansion compartment that mediates delivery of zinc transporters to promote homeostasis
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2021.09.20 04:11 MajorRasta Eydis vs Alice Anime Mash up Battle
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2021.09.20 04:11 dalvz Finally got to take the new quad out and was treated to some beautiful Colorado scenery. Can't wait for full blown Fall to get here.
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2021.09.20 04:11 luvinqgold trading/selling smf heels and sleeves ^
2021.09.20 04:11 zeta_00 Could any of you give me some advice on how to make it full-time in Fiverr, making at least a bare minimum of $2000 a month here in the United States, as a remote freelance programmer:
Currently I'm working for a small tradesmen business, as a software engineer, using Java, Python, and the typical web languages.
Anyways, I enjoy writing code but I'm not happy with this traditional 9-to-5 job that I'm currently in. So, I want to make it as a remote freelance coder.
I decided to start off in Fiverr, since you can start with $5 dollar gigs, which should make it easier to land my 1st few gigs, so that I can build more experience and reputation as a remote freelance coder.
I also developed and hosted my own WordPress site where I can market myself, and post links to a portfolio that shows my experience, as well as some software projects that I've developed.
As for the type of work that I want to start off with, I decided to start off doing WordPress development because it's a little bit easier to get into, and it looks like WordPress developers are currently in high demand.
Anyways, at the bare minimum I would need to make around $2000 a month in order to be able to resign from my 9-to-5 traditional programming job, and transition into remote freelance coding full-time.
So my questions are:
1) Is this feasible? Can I eventually make a living making at least $2000 a month on Fiverr, with decent coding skills?
2) Since I'm starting off as a WordPress developer, what is an area of WordPress development that I can specialize in, that would help me stand out and land regular gigs on Fiverr?
2) Do you have any more tips that I can use to help me succeed as a freelance programmer? I have a WordPress site setup to market myself, but I don't know what else I can do, to improve my likelihood of regularly and consistently landing gigs in Fiverr?
Also, I'm reading online that there's a shortage of software engineers, so is there a shortage of freelance programmers? What's the current supply and demand of remote freelance programmers? I just want to know what I'm getting into, in the online freelancing programming world.
Anyways, thanks in advance for the help!
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2021.09.20 04:11 Yeet4Beats dimscrod srtok
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2021.09.20 04:11 leastusedprofile Glassing over an urban hell
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2021.09.20 04:11 slevin08 Most of us was like this....time to stop
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2021.09.20 04:11 Msjwabbit26 I found out i was pregnant and its been a nightmare.
Sorry this is going to be along post but i'll try to keep it as short as possible.
Background: ME (F35) been with my partner (M39) who has NF2 for almost 3 years, we live together and have been talking about getting engaged, kids etc. Ive been taking birth controll however had to change the pill due to debilidating migraines, found out that i was pregnant (unplanned pregnancy) however as we've been together in a loving relationship and financially secure i was so happy at the news. Told my partner when he got home from work and he was the exact opposit - pretty much catatonic at the news, kept repeating his life was over etc. After a couple of days of this i was really worried about him and his mental state so i encouraged him to talk to his family.
As there is a 50% chance he could pass he genetic condition onto any child they took his side and i was told they couldnt condone me having this child and then stopped all contact with me despite we wanting to look into amniotic testing etc which would give us a better indication if the baby even had the gene. After much discussion together i agreed to a termination due to the medical risks however on the grounds that he and i plan to have a baby using doner sperm once we were married and he proposed to me about a week later while we were on holiday.
The decison didnt sit right with me from the start and I couldnt get a termination appointment till after our holiday however when i got back so it was about 2.5 weeks from when i made the decision to when i had the appointment scheduled. I was crying alot and when i came to him to tell him i was struggling with the decision and needed some support he got aggressive and said things to me like: I would be responsible for his breakdown, that i was trying to ruin his life, that i was a bitch and that i only wanted it out of spite. He pretty much made it clear that he didnt want ANY baby which upset me as he was saying the opposite of what we've disucussed. My family were trying to be as supportive as possible and help me make my own decision but ultimately i went though with it as i felt backed into a corner and made the best decision for myself and the child because it was made clear to me that i would likely be raising the baby as a single mother.
When we got home from the appointment i kicked him out as i was so upset and was so depressed about everything i was sucidial. So i posted up on facebook (which i know was the wrong thing to do) that id terminated the baby and was desperate for some support - which friends and people i barely knew offered. His family despite having nothing to do with me for the enture 3 weeks since we told them were outraged and appalled that id made it public and promptly blocked me and sent me all sorts of horrible messages. The worst one being from his brother in law telling me i was a horrible person and that i should go kill myself.
Its now 4 months later and we've been having counceling to try to move past all this however its still a nightmare with his family. He and i still cant talk about the termination, he has admitted he was scared however does actually want a family (via a doner), we've set a date and our relationship is great as long as nothing is mentioned about his family. HIs parents have barely anything to do with us and dont think we should get married because we're still not speaking to his sister and her husband after involving himself and what he said to me untill he apologises. Ive reached out to them 7 times to apologise for the things i said and for putting the post up via text or by email as they refuse to talk to me and explain why i did it. I dont feel proud of my actions so i apologised for them but i know i'll never get an apology from them. Last week i was able to catch his mum alone and was told that: im only unhappy because i didnt get my way, that im manipulating him and that the BIL shouldnt have to apologise to me to be able to come to our wedding.
Despite much money spent on counciling my fiance cant stand up to his family and wont show unity and back the relationship even when e doesnt like or agree with what they have said so its always family vs me (with him staying out of it), I used to have a ok relationship with his family however now i just dont feel comfortable going over there anymore after everything thats happened.
I was raised that if you have a problem with someone you deal with it however his family MO is lets all just get along and lets not talk about sensitive subjects. Ive told my partner that i want to have as little as possible to do with them however he's pushing for a relationship especially with our wedding date set for May 2022 Our councilor is trying his best to set up a mediation session with his family however i think its going to be a sit show as his parents dont even think its nesessary and he doesnt even want to make a plan as to what we're going to say and the best way to say it so we can work thought whats happened.
I just feel so exhaused as nothing about this engagement has been happy or a celebration.Our relationship when we have nothing to do with his family is actually really amazing and thats the only reason im still here however he lets his family come between us all the time. I feel like im the one who had to go thought all the trauma and im the only one actually trying to fix things and im getting to the point where i dont even know why im trying. I feel like im either going to have to walk away completely or just accept that he's going to let his family treat me like shit and try to spend as little time there as possible because he's never going to stand up to them.
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